TW: Rape, sexual assault, sexual coercion, graphic language.  Editor's note: The writer of this piece (me) is British and uses the C word here in the context of categorising an awful person being awful. It is not to be conflated with the American v…

I turn 45 today.   There's a large, full-length mirror in my bathroom. When I shower, I can see my huge, hairy, hulking body lumbering into view. It's a large mirror but I fill it in all directions. I'm a pasty slab of meat, taking up too much spac…

She fucked another man.   While I was at work she fucked another man.   While I was writing reports, and holding meetings, and managing stakeholders, she fucked another man. She let him touch her, kiss her, and put his fucking dick in her. She suc…

I am not dominant.  I'm just large. I take up too much space. I am in the way on the street, in the way on the tube, and in the way in the office. I am sorry you got stuck behind my melon head in the theatre but I can't slouch any more than this an…

For those who don't know, Sinful Sunday has always been a delightfully sexy and beautiful photo project run by the wonderful Molly Moore. Bloggers and kinksters across the web would share sexy and artistic images based on a theme and Molly or a gues…

I get asked about the term "Daddy" a lot and I've been meaning to write about it for some time because I can't think of many words that elicit such a spectrum of responses, from breathless excitement to eyebrow-raising judgment - this is a word with…